http://www.CoachNorth.com/ --- Tinder Secrets for Women
As easy as it may sound, there’s more to Tinder than swiping left or right. This is especially true if you’re looking for love.
Hey ladies, my name is Amy North and I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, BC. Some of you may know me from my new program, The Devotion System, designed to help women find and lock down love, but if this is your first time checking out my channel then welcome!
Now, today I’m going to talk about something that is so relevant in today’s day and age, and that’s how to successfully find love online. Or, more specifically, how to use Tinder.
As a woman you’ve actually got the odds in your favour. In fact, a study by students at Indiana University showed that men swipe right 47% of the time, whereas women only do so 15%. That means that men are three times more likely to “like” a woman’s profile than we are to like men. This same study also showed that humour, a clever opening and looks are the top three attention drivers and that proximity plays a big role in your chances of hooking up.
Now with those stats in mind, let’s talk about some tinder secrets for women, tricks to up your odds and make more men want to meet you.
Before I jump into these secrets I’d like to quickly ask that if you like what you learn here today or enjoy this video then please take a moment and subscribe to my YouTube channel. There you’ll find my other dating advice videos, and I’d really appreciate the support.
So, now that that’s out of the way, let’s get started.
The first tinder secret I want to share with you is to present yourself in an honest way. This means being honest about your appearance. So, as tempted as you may be to photoshop your image or to use an old photo of yourself, one from a time when you were younger and in better shape, don’t.
The number one complaint tinder users have is that their date in no way resembled their online profile, so to avoid this from happening simply be real. Sure, a super attractive profile pic may get you more right swipes, but that bubble will soon be burst when you have to meet with these men in real life. Instead be honest about your looks, it’s only going to be awkward when you meet in person if you’re lying... not to mention that it’ll kick things off on sour note.
Speaking of photos, there are a few other tips you should keep in mind when choosing which ones to use. For instance, it’s important that you include photos of yourself alone. Yes, a fun group photo can work to your advantage, especially if you have one that shows you having a good time with friends, but that said, don’t over do it with these shots. If all of your photos are of you with others then men may have a hard time telling who you are.
On the other hand, the same rule applies for selfies. One or two is okay, but make sure that not all of your photos are ones you’ve taken yourself. These get boring and lack some serious originality. Instead use photos that are interesting. For instance, pictures of you travelling or shots that show your personality. Oh, and this should go without saying, but by all means avoid the duckface. Guys aren’t into them. Same goes for overly revealing photos. Posting pictures of your extreme cleavage or booty shorts is going to attract the wrong kinds of guys. So, if you’re looking for a relationship then this isn’t the way you want to go.
My second tinder tip is to include a bio. Now you may be thinking, “but Amy, I just want to meet someone online quickly,” or “I don’t want to put that much effort into an online hookup site.” If that’s you then it’s especially important that you keep this tip in mind.
Including a bio not only ups your odds of men messaging you, but it also gives them something to comment on. This is especially true if you come up with something creative and original. “Just looking to meet someone new” or “other dating sites didn’t work out” are not good leads. Instead be happy-go-lucky self, this is your chance to stand out.
When writing your bio, think of it as a first impression, because really, that’s what it is. Just like you’d want to make a good one in person, this is your shot to do so online. Now, you don’t have to include every detail about who you are and what your story is, but instead note the things you’re into — this will give men something to relate to and a genuine taste of who you are. You don’t have to be overly serious here, in fact a little bit of lighthearted humour can take you far. Just be sure that what you write is tasteful and intelligent. Don’t skimp on writing out full words either.
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